Nixon White House Tapes — Conversation 034-030 Date: Sunday, December 10, 1972 at 12:04 PM Participants: Nixon, Richard M. (President); Dobrynin, Anatoliy F. Recording device: White House Telephone Source: https://www.easynixon.org/tapes/034-030 This transcript was generated automatically by AI (WhisperX) and has not been reviewed for accuracy. Do not cite it as authoritative. [0:00] Oh, good morning, Mr. President. [0:04] I hope we didn't get you up too early. [0:06] No, no, thank you. [0:07] You see, now is the time we have to be early. [0:10] That's right. [0:14] Mr. [0:14] Ambassador, I had a couple of personal things and then one substantive thing I wanted to talk to you about briefly, if I could. [0:20] Yes, of course. [0:22] First, to thank you for the very gracious way that you and Mrs. Dobrynin [0:30] are helping our children on their trip. [0:34] They're looking forward to it. [0:35] It'll be the high point of their [0:37] travel, and I just hope they aren't too much bother to your people. [0:40] Oh, they're really nice kids, kids, really very nice. [0:43] We enjoyed being with them the whole evening. [0:45] Well, they told me, and they just had a wonderful time, the movies and everything, and they'll be good representatives over there. [0:54] I'm sure about it, no doubt. [0:56] And Mr. President, if I discuss with him when I was in Moscow, he will take care of it. [1:02] He asked me to tell you that he will take care about everything will go right. [1:05] You shouldn't bother. [1:08] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. [1:10] All right. [1:12] The second point is that I wanted to thank you for, as you know, I'm very much on top of these negotiations and so forth, and I want to thank you for the [1:26] work that you have done, you and your government. [1:28] And without you and your government, well, you know, we've got our problem. [1:34] And I've handled that personally, as you know. [1:37] I know. [1:38] And I've gotten that coming along, although it's tough. [1:45] I mean, I must say it's tough. [1:48] But you've got—you and your government have the other problem. [1:54] There's really only one issue left. [1:58] Yeah. [1:58] And it's the issue really is to me it's hard. [2:04] I just think very, very hard for me to understand how they can go back on what we had agreed on October 8. [2:17] I just have to take a position on that which is [2:23] I want you to know that I'm not doing it in order to, you know, I don't want to give you an impossible problem, but I've had to put some impossible problems to chew, you know, like the withdrawal of forces, and I've done it. [2:36] And on this one, like the DMZ, you and I know what the DMZ means. [2:43] Symbolically, we know also what it means as a matter of fact. [2:48] And on this one, we just can't let these talks fail. [2:53] to that one item. [2:54] And I just wanted you to know that I—that when Haig reported to me about some compromise language, I said that just wouldn't do. [3:04] I just think we have to have the—I mean, we agreed to this language long ago. [3:08] It's the right kind of language. [3:11] And I wanted—I just want you to know that—hear it directly from me, you see? [3:18] Yes, I do. [3:19] Now, I don't say this for the purpose of [3:22] You know I'll never do this because, let me put it quite candidly. [3:27] Yeah. [3:28] Mr. Brezhnev and I and your government and I, we got bigger fish to fry than this damn thing. [3:34] Exactly. [3:34] The main thing is to get this one out of the damn frying pan so that we can get busy on with other things. [3:39] We'll go on with the other things anyway. [3:40] You understand, not that. [3:42] Yeah, I understand. [3:43] But this always is an irritant. [3:45] And now is the opportunity. [3:46] And frankly, I think the biggest step toward... [3:51] toward the great goal that Mr. Barstaff and I are working together and that you and Henry and all of us have been working for to get this thing out of the way and out of the way tomorrow. [4:03] But we just can't let this one clause where we had agreed on a clause [4:09] And then it turned around. [4:11] We just can't get it to turn, to stop. [4:13] But that's, see, I just want you to know how I felt about it. [4:17] And if you would convey it, I would appreciate it. [4:20] I will definitely. [4:21] And thank you very much, Mr. . [4:22] And I'll, I just like to take one minute. [4:27] Al Haig is here with me. [4:28] Yes. [4:29] And if there's any, I just, he's listening. [4:32] And if he has any technical thing to add, I'll have him say a word to you. [4:37] Okay. [4:38] I'll stay on the line with you. [4:40] Do you have another minute? [4:41] Yes, of course. [4:42] Yeah, yeah. [4:42] Of course. [4:43] All right, here's Haig. [4:44] Thank you very much, Mr. President. [4:46] And on the first point, it's a real pleasure. [4:48] On the second, I will send a message to Mr. President. [4:51] Yes, thank you very much. [4:53] Good. [4:53] Mr. [4:53] Ambassador, this was the issue I told you this morning. [4:56] If I understand correctly, the compromise you proposed is not good, so you're coming to that one, which was before, yes? [5:02] Yes. [5:03] But you see, Mr. [5:05] Ambassador, the compromise was something that... [5:08] you know, Henry, everybody there, they all get tired and they say we will compromise. [5:13] And he hadn't recognized the fact that I've got, you know, I've got to get the other people in line. [5:21] And I just, the compromise won't do. [5:25] And it isn't all that important. [5:29] Hell, the DMZ is there. [5:31] It's written into everything, and so to put in some language about whether civilians move across or this or that, I think it's just nonsense, really, really to have a talk break down about such a small issue. [5:47] Yeah, I understand. [5:48] See, that's my feeling, and I want you to know how that I felt here, that we just had to, we're going to have to insist tomorrow on the original language, and I just want you to know that [5:59] If that is done, then we're going to be able to do other things that are very important, because when we come right down to it, let's look at it. [6:08] North Vietnam is a dragon huge like it is on us. [6:14] Then I can get into the Congress, and I can get some of that economic assistance and so forth that they need, and I can do it on a strong, positive note, which I want to do, because I just... [6:28] and this is no thought of defeating anybody or anything. [6:33] It's going to be one of those things where neither side, most sides will claim victory, neither will have it. [6:40] The main thing is [6:41] that it will, what we're trying to do here, Mr. [6:44] Ambassador, to accomplish, which I know you want and we want, we want to remove this irritant between our relations. [6:51] That's the real thing. [6:53] We can't allow this damn place to interfere in the relations between the Soviet Union and the United States. [6:59] That's really what it gets down to. [7:00] And this is what our approach to you is. [7:03] This is exactly it. [7:04] The only one question, Mr. President. [7:05] Yes, sir. [7:06] You referred to [7:07] or the formulation of October 8, but my impression is that this question of GMZ really arises only on a [7:14] the previous session, which was two weeks ago. [7:17] Well, that's right, that October 26th. [7:19] Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry, I got... [7:20] So it was not... [7:21] I had my, no, I had my day wrong. [7:23] October 26th is what I, if I said October, I meant October 26th. [7:27] When they have the last meeting, the last previous one. [7:29] That's right, that's right, it was the October 26th one, that's what I meant. [7:33] I see. [7:33] No, the October 8th one was the first one, before they got this spelled out. [7:37] Then it was, when they have the next meeting, I think it was really, even in November, [7:43] Right. [7:44] Yes, and then . [7:45] Right, right, I know. [7:47] It's clear. [7:47] But the point is that we came to that position, we had an agreement on it, and then now they... [7:53] Yes, we just want to have that agreement which was agreed. [7:55] Right, right. [7:56] And we just want to go to the language that we did agree to at one point and just have it done with, and then we'll, I can assure you, you'll have every possible support from our side. [8:08] And we would hope also from your side. [8:11] Yeah, I understand. [8:13] The only thing is there's no rather short time left. [8:16] In Moscow it's already midnight. [8:18] The meeting will be tomorrow morning, so it's rather short time. [8:23] You understand what I mean? [8:24] It's a physical possibility. [8:28] Now it's in Moscow. [8:31] How could we go to 3 o'clock tomorrow afternoon? [8:34] Something maybe... [8:36] I'll tell you what we'll do. [8:38] Let me see if I can get Henry to have the meeting at 3 o'clock tomorrow afternoon. [8:41] Would that be better? [8:42] Yes, I think it's a little bit better, but still maybe even in the evening, because now I have to send Moscow to Hanoi. [8:50] Oh, boy. [8:52] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [8:54] Right. [8:55] I get it. [8:55] All right. [8:58] I'll get at that right now. [9:00] They're working on technical details anyway. [9:02] I would just say they do. [9:03] They might have, but then we wait a little bit earlier. [9:05] I don't know what will be the final result. [9:07] They could meet by, say, 3 or 4 in the afternoon. [9:10] Yes, I'm sure that my government will interfere, but I don't know what will be the final response of Hanoi. [9:16] I understand. [9:17] And I can assure you that when I talk to Saigon, I can't tell you what they're going to do either. [9:23] But I would like to have a time, because I know for my government, to have a time to be in communication with Hanoi. [9:29] But I just wanted to know you. [9:31] how strongly I felt. [9:32] It isn't a matter of me trying to embarrass or humiliate him. [9:38] It's just one of those things that this is what's going to make or break the deal. [9:42] Yeah. [9:44] Okay. [9:44] All right. [9:45] Thank you. [9:45] Thank you very much. [9:48] Bye-bye.